Exactly why is it that whenever i will be being bitch, aka ignoring males me alone that I have no interest in going out with again, men won’t leave? I'm like its bad karmic energy but We additionally feel just like there is nothing owed to anybody after 1 date, i ought ton’t need to split up with some guy that i'm perhaps not dating.
Evan is i'm all over this!
It is because they’re perhaps perhaps perhaps not guys that are great. Thus you didn’t provide them with a second date.
Julia—I’m simply guessing right right here, but I figured I would respond lol since I have the same problem.
We that that the thing that is going on the following is by using males you’re NOT enthusiastic about, you might be exuding an alternate sort of energy…. Possibly one that's care-free, absolve to be your self, perhaps maybe not needy, maybe not clingy, easy-going, etc, because you’re NOT enthusiastic about these dudes.
Using the dudes you are looking at, perhaps you’re behaving only a little differently. Even subtly? Possibly possibly you’re more stressed around them, trying hard to wow them, don’t wish to offend, hiding your TRUE self rather than letting your normal radiance shine, you might be really worried/invested in whether or not they will phone you right back for a second date, and perhaps that vibe is seeping throughout your skin pores and are sensing it…even if perhaps subconsciously.
Idk…this is simply my GUESS. We have trouble with this too because it will feel just like some body is playing a joke lol that is cruel! However it had been this current year in me(that I have ZERO interest in whatsoever), and how I act around guys who I’m crushing on real hard, and it was then that I realized: “BINGO that I started to really think about how I act around guys who are interested. ” The men I’m NOT enthusiastic about are becoming a version that is different of compared to the people that I WILL BE enthusiastic about!